Ladies, have you ever composed different scenes in your head.  You know, ones of rescue and romance.    Hmmmm…it is okay to fantasize…in fact it is quite healthy for a marriage.  If I didn’t dream up crazy scenarios, my husband and I would be a sexless married couple!!  There is nothing wrong in re-enacting the scene in your mind of Richard Gere (from the movie An Officer and a Gentleman) busting down the front door and rescues you from the piles of laundry you have been doing for 15 straight years!  Ooooh, how about when Kevin Costner from Robin Hood is determined to get his Maid Marion….Oh and for you Sex and the City fans…what about when Big went to Paris to profess his love to Carrie during the last season?   I have to say that my husband is not a very romantic person.  He just isn’t built that way.  To no fault of his own, he just wasn’t exposed to that as a young boy growing up.  His father was a watered down version of Archie Bunker with an english accent.  Anyways, fantasies and such are harmless ways of staying in touch with that side of you.  It gives you a boost of friskiness.  I can’t speak for you out there, but I need all the help I can get!  As a matter of fact, I am about to watch a movie right now!

Ciao!